How many of you like to have your picture taken?
I hope there are some of you who would say yes but I don’t personally know anyone. And that leads me to ponder why. Do we feel we must be model perfect to have a shot taken? Models aren’t perfect and quite often that photography shot is airbrushed to make them look perfect.
Do we fear having our imperfections captured forever in picture form? (I have news for you – we are all imperfect).
Do we fear appearing self -centered – as in a selfie?
Do we fear judgment by others?
Probably no judgment will be as critical as our own. In a group shot we automatically look to see if we were smiling or if our eyes were shut or if our stomach is sticking out etc. Yet the thing to realize is everyone else is looking to see if they are perfect also so odds are no one will notice your perceived faults because they are looking for their own.
Is it just that we don’t look the same in a photograph as we do in a mirror?
In this day of photoshop, big brother and our picture online everywhere, should we also fear being turned into something we are not through copying and manipulation of our personal images?
There is so much behind that photograph.
What are some reasons to submit to a picture being taken of yourself or to taking one of yourself?
- Well those photos taken throughout the school years are super cute to share and look back on.
- You’ll probably never look better than you do now (most certainly not younger)
- A photo can help you sell yourself and or a product in a job interview, website or marketing campaign.
A photo ideal way to demonstrate how an outfit goes together. I guess I will work on this hangup.
I have challenged myself to post on Instagram for 30 days. It is an effort to try to understand how it works. A better challenge would have been to post a selfie for 30 days. I did take a few selfies and made sure to include some that were not perfect to begin with. I found it impossible to get a great selfie so maybe my next challenge will be to post till I actually get a selfie I consider “good”. That could be a long and painful journey.
A good photographer is an investment worth making when you can afford it. They know how to pose you and your body so that it looks good. They have excellent lighting and they can help you make the right wardrobe decisions. Take a look – it’s easy to tell who’s the photographer in these 2 shots.
Back to that original question, How do you feel about being photographed?